Anal sex and YOU!

In this sexposé we explore the world of anal sex . In this progressive world many straight couples are experimenting with anal sex. This article primarily focus' on the top (male doing the insertion) during anal sex and tips he can implement in the heat of the moment.

You cant just be ramming stuff all over the place the moment you start to have sex with your partner. Foreplay is primarily the way a sexual encounter begins. A big NO NO is just shoving your penis into your partners ass. So you have to do what it takes to make sure your partner is comfortable enough i.e. "loose" enough and ready for him/her to take the penetration. Start by gently touching the area whether you use a finger or tongue that's up to you and how comfortable you are.

Lube it up!
Lubrication is the most important thing! Coming from experience a lot of guys want to do things with little to no lube because "it feels better" to them of course! The anus doesn't provide lubrication like a vagina does so even if you are going to use a finger to relax your partner please use lube! This is where bottoms have to be a bit bossy and use however much lube you want honey so you aren't in pain in the morning.

Basic anal sex positions!
Once your bottom is ready and relaxed to the point to where he will be comfortable with penetration its time to decide what position is best for you to start with. There are three basic positions

1. Your bottom is on their back with legs spread and/or pulled up.
2. Your bottom is on their knees and elbows or basically in a doggy style position
3. Your bottom is on their stomach laying completely flat

When the top is beginning to insert his penis inside of you it is always a help if the bottom pushes out slightly and then relaxes as the penis goes in.

What angle are you!?
Because not every mans penis isn't angled the same, certain curvatures will be a bit more stimulating for your bottom in certain positions. its primarily about having the curve of your erection oriented so your thrusts and movements press on your partners prostate

UPWARD CURVATURE: if your penis curves upward towards you then your bottom will get more pleasure if you were fucking [lol] him on his back.

DOWNWARD CURVATURE: If your penis curves downward like it does when not erect then doggy style would be your best bet.

Below are some of your not so traditional sex positions so you can spice it up and give your bottom a taste of something new

Ref: Sex Position Pics

Tuesday, September 30 | posted in | 1 comments [ More ]

Make him skeet skeet

Everyone has different approaches and techniques to assisting their male partner to reach that point of orgasm. I was checking out some news on and here are some techniques that they have suggested. But of course you have to remember that there are people out there that are all about themselves and don't want your help at all....just a place to stick it. But if your man is a bit more open minded and wants to fool around and get freak nasty then you have no choice but to help him out! Here is some advice from Dr. Jallen Rix...

1. Compliments and Communication! A great way to turn a man on and bring him to attention is to let him know you're turned on observations. "Ur ____ is so sexy" "I like the way _____" "You like it when i _____"
2. Change the Pace! If you are having intercourse or if you are just simply giving him a hand job change how quickly an how slow you're doing things. That way you don't get tired easily and numb.
3. Show Me! The best way to make your man jizz is to do it how he normally does it. Ask him to show you how he likes to do things. Take note of what hes doing and learn a thing or two.
4. Don't Interrupt the Orgasm! If you're doing one thing and hes almost to the point of no return don't change it up! Its what you're doing that's brought him there and like they say in tennis "you must always follow through!"
5.Wait to See What He Does Next! If he cums and you just stand up and go somewhere that is such a turn off. He will definitely let you know when he wants you to stop something. Let him bask in the ambiance.


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Oral him, oral her, oral me, oral you

I mentioned that this blog was going to involve sex tips and I am coming through with my promise chilrens! I felt it was best to start you off with something light and progress onto more advanced sex related articles. So this post doesnt run long because we can talk about oral for ages, its primarily going to be about oral sex positions.

The most important thing for you to remember when giving vaginal, anal, or penile oral sex is to make sure YOU are comfortable. Well of course they should be clean too. If you have problems with taste or smell of your partners genitals suggest taking a sensual bath together or bring in some elements of the liquid persuasion such as flavored lubricants. These days they come in a variety of flavors I own ID watermelon flavored lube [AAH WATCHOUT!]

I was checking out some pictures via and they have provided amazing 3D images that will better get the point across.

Pleasing Your Man!

The first one is "The Jack Hammer" essentially your head is between his legs so you'd be able to see his ass. But often times during oral sex youre sucking downward => upward. and this is an excellent change of pace because youre going from up=> down and because he is so used to routine hes going to love this change of pace.
The Second one is called "Oral Therapy". This one is great for him because yo are able simulate the feeling he gets when he gets when hes is pleasing himself. It is also convenient for you because now you have the aid of your hands.

The third is called "Peep Show." If you cannot tell by the picture the male partner is basically giving you a head scissor lol. This position is good because it yet again gives your hands free range to explore all of his other parts. Or if there's a part of yourself you aren't comfortable with and don't want him to see this is also good because he is only seeing your face lol. Has a very master/slave kind of feel to it.

The fourth and final position that is good when giving oral sex to a man is known as "Southern Exposure." This would be best suited to do with a partner you are extremely comfortable with or someone who simply has no inhibitions. The big benefit to this is and i heard this from straight men themselves is when they are getting oral sex, before the point of orgasm they like it when a woman licks/nibbles on what is known as the gooch which is the area between the scrotum and anus. Some men have rumored to even like it when they're getting their anus treated with a lick or stick here and there. But for that....HYGIENE IS OF THE UP MOST IMPORTANCE!

Pleasing Your lady!

Its not always all about the men, we gals have needs too damn it! Here are four prime positions that I feel men need to take note on. Coming from a gay mans perspective who happens to be a bottom, I can kind of vouch for many of these positions here as well. the first one up is...."Forbidden Fruit." This one is a plus because if you not only like vaginal play but enjoy anal as well, your man is already UP IN IT! [okaaaay]

Second we have your standard "Riding The Face."
If you are with a new partner this is going to be your best bet. Especially if he doesn't know what hes doing or is shy. He can never go wrong with this novice move. But remember NO TEETH! Munching the carpet is one thing but uprooting trees is another!
The third position we uncover is "Licking The Flagpole." If your man likes to lick you all over then this would be perfect for you because he practically has all access to everything. It would also help if you are quite flexible with this one. He can reach around, lick up, lick down, etc.
The fourth and final one for women is known as "The Butler." This one is good if your man is a true ass man. You always here "let me have dat ass" or "when ima get some of dat ass" WELL HERE YOU GO! This way he is able to stimulate you from behind with his tongue yet reach around and give you a little action from the front.

I didn't want to go into much detail with this since its the first sex tip blog. But more is yet to come!!!

Tuesday, September 23 | posted in | 1 comments [ More ]

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