On this blog we talk about sex tips and sex advice but what about that other part of your life...dating!? In this modern age the world of online dating has taken off with the mass variety of social networks and dating sites accessible to everyone whether it be a free or paid service. In my opinion paying for a dating service wont change the quality of man/woman you are going to get but hey its varies by person. So here are some online dating tips/advice!
The 10 Online Dating Commandments:
1. You only get one chance to make a first impression so make it a good one! Your goal is to entice the other person enough to get a response. Make your message a a few sentences not a couple paragraphs
2. If in the beginning someone writes to you twice or even three times a day without you responding....NEXT!!!
3. When someone says "We have a lot in common" that's a good thing, but when it goes onto "We're perfect for each other" or even "I love you," hes clinging on way too soon. He doesn't know you, he just knows a description of you and your screen name lol.
4. No Pics! Whats he got to hide? is he down lo? Then if he is then there's no need for all that silly down lo drama in your life. It also goes back to the fairness factor. He hit you up because he saw your picture and was attracted to you, yet you are left in the dark wondering if you're attracted to him.....most of time you wont be.
5. Talk on the phone before you meet! This way you will get a basic feel of their gender lol, personality and age. If you have that problem with people calling you on a constant, then block your number or call from a private number.
6. Meet in public first! Its a good idea to meet at a place you are familiar with when meeting for a first date. A coffee date is always good for that.
7. Consider taking a friend.....a less attractive one of course! lol If things work out then you have your lifetime to spend alone with this person whats a one evening group date.
8. If he/she has forged who they are and look nothing like their pic or who they say, get the fuck out of there! Have an escape plan. Or just walk away lol.
9. Don't get picked up from your house or give out your address. Arrange transportation!
10. Don't bring your date back to your house after your first meet. You don't know him that well just yet. Unless its sex but that's what motels are for.
You cant have anal sex without lube! Well you can but if you want to be hurting and crying then go ahead! But if your are like me, the you like to be prepared! The number one turn off for me is a guy who pulls out a bottle of lotion and says "here's my lube." OH HELL NAH! I will walk right out the door. Here's the Top 6 lubricants as voted by myself and Gay Life's website. I have also provided links to where you can purchase these lubes for yourself.
1] Gun Oil
There is nothing like it! The reason this lube is the absolute best is simply because it just never dries up! Yes you are always worried about lubricant drying up and getting sticky and with Gun Oil NO SIR!!! You literally have to wipe it off yourself when you're done lol.
2] Wet Platinum
Wet Platinum is a part of WET's premium line and is very long lasting. It is also water based and it is another lube that you have to wipe off. It is however quite difficult to get off. If you were to wash your hands you still may have a little left over.
This lube is not only good for anal sex but its great for your skin and libido. This is made from natural aphrodisiacs and plant extracts so its going to give you more than just that feeling in your ass.
Finally a lube that appeals to our taste buds. This lubricant is especially good for people who have partners that like to eat out things lol. Give them a grape flavored boo-gina or va-jayjay. Or if grape isn't their thing how about Pina Colada or Wild Berry or even Passion Fruit.
A favorite across the board. Don't really need to go into detail, the name speaks for itself.