6 Common Sex Mistakes

Saturday, September 26 | posted in | 3 comments

You see a man who thinks just because he has a big penis or he has good looks he knows what to do in the bedroom. Like he is the master of his domain...and his domain being in the vadge or booty. Especially in the gay society you have people who are strict tops and strict bottoms and they feel like they may know everything about sex but until we experience absolutely everything sex wise one really cannot say anything.

A popular way of thinking is "if they do it in porn then that's how i should do it" which is far from the truth. So here are some common mistakes we can make during sex because we are just not in the know.

Silence Is The Key

We cannot assume that our partner knows what is going to please us unless we speak up. Because if you just lay there and you are just quiet then you will probably not end up getting yours the way you wanted. Speak Up! Let them know whats going on!

You Can Navigate The Inside Parts Like Blackbeard The Pirate

Not everyone is build the same on the inside. I tell people all the time "You cannot just pull into my garage...you have to go down the hill then back in slowly." You can easily look at a picture of someones inside parts but that does not mean it is exactly what it looks like.

Your Skills Are All They Need

Sure, you may be good at oral sex or can ride or penetrate like no other but that doesn't mean it is going to get that person at the moment to that point of sexual climax. Just because your penis is gigantic, you still may not be hitting all the right spots. Or vice verse someone needs someone to go way deep and your 6" penis cannot make it that far.

There is also the possibility that you are not riding it the right way or gyrating the correct way or moving enough to make him ejaculate....This goes back to COMMUNICATION. VOICE YOUR NEEDS.

You Know What They Want

It worked with one person so let me just do the same exact thing and this new person is going to want that. Far from the truth. Everyone likes something a different way. Some may not like penetration, some may or may not like oral sex. Some positions may work for some and may not work for others.

You Worry About How You Look During Sex

Hmm how does my sex face look? Am I still looking cute even though he is beating my back in? Don't worry about that. 6 times out of 10 the person is already attracted to you before the sexual act so he is still going to be attracted to you during the act...unless you are doing something just god awful and its a turn off.

He Is Always Ready And Up For Sex

We are humans and love sex, but not everyone needs it 24/7. It seems like a man is always up to getting his dick sucked or to penetrate something but that is not always the case. Someones emotions can play a part in whether or not they are up to having sex. Sex can be a stress reliever but there are those days where we just need a hug.

3 Responses So far
on September 26, 2009 at 1:00 PM  

I LOVE that you keep educating us on this subject...

on September 26, 2009 at 1:11 PM  


on December 17, 2009 at 3:36 PM  

Totally True. Once date a guy who was really good looking but when it came to the bedroom he was totally HORRIBLE! Love your blog!

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