Go From Boy To Boyfriend

Tuesday, September 29 | posted in | 1 comments

You know that friend you have who you are just ecstatic you two are friends but you would kill to be his boyfriend??? Well bitch why not make your man!? What have you got to lose?

In the gay community when you meet new people you have that thought running through your mind "Hmm could he be a good boyfriend? What would our lives be like if we were together?"

When you guys hang out you know he is just the right one for you but you two have just been on that friends level and you want to take that risk and see what hes like being your boyfriend. Hell you're tired of being single! There are three simple approaches to go from friend to boyfriend.

The easiest of the three strategies is spending as much time as possible with the person. It is a very subtle approach to making him your man. Inviting him to hang out with you more and more is an easy way for you two to learn more and more about each other.

In this instance....desperation is not the key....Invite but don't invite him to everything you do everyday. 9 times out of 10 if he likes you as much as you like him he will definitely want to spend time with you....HOW PERFECT! This can also work vice verse, if he is always saying "no thanks" "I have other plans" all the time then that is also a sign that he is not as interested in you as you are in him.

For those bold character types you can simply make a move. If you are in a laid back environment, being affectionate and physical with him is a sign to let him know you are interested. Make a drink and get comfortable with each other. As you are being touchy feely with him and he reciprocates....BOOYAH!

Honesty is also the best policy. Generally you are the shy type so it is best to talk to him one on one so you do not have to worry about outside influences. Even though this is one of the best approaches, it can be the most brutal. You have to remember that he may not react exactly how you want him to and may take him some time to respond...if he even responds. Just do not put all your eggs in one basket and get them knocked over!

on September 29, 2009 at 10:51 AM  

That is very helpful; thank you for posting that. I will continue to read this and learn from this. Thank you.

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