Saving Your Sexless Relationship

Monday, September 7 | posted in | 3 comments

We all begin relationships having sex like monkeys but then overtime the amount of times you guys have sex slows down. Hell it may even be non existent. The non existent part may not be because you guys are bored with each other it could be because you guys choose not to have sex for a while or you have a long distance relationship going.

Sex is not the only thing in a relationship but it is a perk and when the amount of sex is very sparse then you have to do all you can to make everything else in your relationship work so you do not get restless and leave the person or get it from someone else [or cheat] and then cause an end to the relationship.

The fundamental of any relationship is communication. Maybe you didn't realize it but just straight communication will keep a person interested. It is one big way of holding a persons interest in you. Because when you stop talking or talk for short periods of time not on a somewhat regular basis you will lose interest. I can speak personally on it because its what I have gone through. I get this feeling of "oh he is over me" "maybe I am boring him" "If he doesn't want to converse with me then I should just move on to someone who does."

Why don't you go out on a date on a regular. It is nice to spend time at home with your dick daddy but hell why not go to the movies, go to dinner, have lunch on the terrace lol. That is going to definitely bring back the romance. But that is not the only way to romance your lover. Why not buy them a gift? it doesn't have to be a big thing, it could be their favorite food, a card, a new pair of sexy ass underwear, anything. This is going to let them know that you are still thinking about them and more than likely will get you a little sexual action.

Forgiveness is the key to success! Another instance where I say that I a am a personal victim of. You can have your little grudge but get over it honey, its done...it is in the past...over it! It is hard to do anything with your lover when you both know you have grudges and reservations about things. But at the same time just because you are forgiven that does not mean that you can constantly fuck up. But keep in mind that you have already fucked up so that is a strike against you. Although we should forgive, one can only forgive so many times before you get tired of it and do not want to deal with it anymore.

And of course you should make sex as romantic as possible. Just getting naked and busting it wide open isn't romantic. Foreplay would be nice, it is the easiest way to let your spouse know that you still are interested in them sexually. If you are living those long distance relationships, when you do get together and have sex I think you should spend a vast majority of the time making love to each other and then bump and grind.

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.::STELLA*DELLA::.
on September 8, 2009 at 12:22 AM  

YES I AGREE WITH MOST OF THIS POST AND I CANNOT STRESS THE FACT OF COMMUNICATION....DONT CALL UR GIRLFRIENDS OR BOYFRIENDS UP ALL THE TIME AND TALK ABOUT YOUR MAN TO THEM, WHEN YOU ARE HAVING AN ISSUE WITH HIM, YOU NEED TO LET HIM KNOW! DONT LET THINGS GET OUT OF CONTROL THEN SAY YOU DIDNT KNOW WHAT TO SAY...BUT YOU AND BEEN TALKING ALL ALONG TO EVERY ONE ELSE ABOUT HIM!

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.::STELLA*DELLA::.
on September 8, 2009 at 12:23 AM  

and where are your podcasts?

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thegayte-keeper
on September 8, 2009 at 12:01 PM  

You should write a column...this was VERY good...

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