Walking That Road To A Breakup

Wednesday, October 7 | posted in | 1 comments

Within the last month or so I have seen many relationships crumble around me. They have all come to the conclusion that it was time to move on and are you in that situation? How do you know when it is time to let him go?

Holding onto a bad relationship can be draining emntally and physcially. We want to be in love but never want to fall out of love with someone so we keep what is not good for us. You hear people say all the time when a relationship is not a good one "Honey let him go" and it is always easier said than done but here are some ways to help you determine when it is time to truly let him go.

Family and friends know you more than anyone else so why not take the time to listen to what they have to say about your relationship withoutbeing defensive about it. When people talk about someone you like, you instantly go on the defense and defend them so their image and reputation isnt tainted. But it always takes an outsider looking in to see the things that you are missing. Because your friends/family saw you before you were with the significant other  they were able to see how you have changed since he has entered into your life.

It is good to start analyzing yourself instead of analyzing the situation that you are in. Are you truly happy? Have you been able to benefit from this relationship at all? How does he make you feel? Are there more bad times than good? If you feel you aren't able to trust him and you are always voicing your concern about him spending more time with you.....You AREN't HAPPY.

One problem many people have is when they make decisions they rarely stick with them. Especially when it comes to being in a relationship. You decide to break up one day and then the next day you two are having makeup sex. So once you make your decision...MAKE IT FINAL! This is going to keep your man, or ex from being led on and you have the peace of mind to find you another hopefully more stable relationship. Remember all you have learned from this past relationship. All those mistakes you made before...work on fixing them.

Don't think with just your heart. If its time to let go...Then honey, let go and let god!

on December 3, 2009 at 2:50 AM  

ooohhh i love article. so informing. ill most def pass this on to a few friends.

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